Saturday, April 28, 2018

Day 163 - Troubled Thoughts


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Troubled Thoughts
Day 163

You do not need to be constantly burdened by sorrowful thoughts.

"Listen to my prayer, O God, do not ignore my plea; hear me and answer me. My thoughts trouble me and I am distraught" (Psalm 55:1-2).

Author, speaker, and humorist Barbara Johnson lost two of her sons. She shares how God gave her a special memory of one of her sons to replace the bad thoughts that were overwhelming her. She says: "The memory is so special that when I talk about my son and I think about it, God windshield-wipes the pain, and I can enjoy the other memories and think on things that are good and happy and fun and pure. And God, in time, does erase the painful memories. It's so important to think of the fun times."

Ask God for a special memory of your child to replace the negative pictures in your mind. Focus your thoughts on that special memory. Share it with others, and treasure it.

Lord God, remind me of the happy memories, the fun times, and the laughter, and may those memories bring a smile to my face and to others around me. Amen.



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Friday, April 27, 2018

Day 162 - Treasure Your Memories


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Treasure Your Memories
Day 162

Children are a gift from the Lord. You want the best for your children—long, happy lives; spiritual growth; and fulfillment. But every day is a gift from God. Even in your loss, it's good to be thankful for the time you did have together.

Rate yourself: Have you been mostly (a) thankful for all the wonderful times with your child or (b) bitter about the times you won't have with your child?

"I had her for almost five years," says Cindy, who lost her daughter. "I'm the lucky one. I try not to focus on what is so bad, and I try to say, 'Okay, I can't change it, so let's look at what's good or at what's not so bad."

The Bible says that Jesus loves children dearly. Be assured that your child is precious to Jesus and so are you. "He took the children in his arms, put his hands on them and blessed them" (Mark 10:16).

After the prayer today, spend time thinking about some joyous and humorous times you had with your child.

Lord of heaven, calm my heart and help me to remember right now the precious memories I can learn from, grow from, and treasure in my heart daily. Amen.



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Thursday, April 26, 2018

Day 161 - Is Bitterness the Only Option?


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Is Bitterness the Only Option?
Day 161

For those who do not believe in the world to come, bitterness is indeed the only option.

But for those who believe in an eternal glorious life, ruled by a God who is higher, wiser, and more powerful than all, these people have hope—the true, godly hope that they will see their loved ones again, reunited in His loving presence. To ensure this hope, you must surrender your life to Him and commit yourself to serving Him and learning more about Him.

Jesus died as the payback for the sins of all people; He took the blame. But Jesus rose from the dead. He defeated death and now lives eternally so that you, too, can experience eternal life with Him. He loves you that much! Through Christ you can be reconciled to God, no matter what you have done in the past. Repent (turn from) your sins today and turn straight into His loving arms.

The Bible offers a simple plan of salvation to those who come with a sincere heart: "If you confess with your mouth, 'Jesus is Lord,' and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For it is with your heart that you believe and are justified, and it is with your mouth that you confess and are saved" (Romans 10:9-10).

Lord Jesus, I believe that You are the Son of God and that You died on the cross to save me from my sins. I turn away from my sinful ways right now and surrender myself to You. Thank you, Amen.



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Wednesday, April 25, 2018

Day 160 - The Loss of a Child: Bitterness and Blame


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The Loss of a Child: Bitterness and Blame
Day 160

"The bottom line is no matter whom you point a finger at and expect that person in some way to take the blame or pay you back—there is no way this will bring closure or peace to your heart," says Shelly, whose son died. Another person cannot bear your pain for you; only Christ can bear your pain.

She continues, "In the same way, you can't pay God back for your sins. It took the blood of Christ to wash them because you can't pay back for what you've done, and it becomes a futile battle that leads you into a spiral of bitterness that could just choke you.

"So greater and quicker is the healing to rise above it and just say, 'Lord, let me walk in the light of understanding today that You're with me, that You love me, that it's okay.'"

Let it go. Free yourself from the bitterness and blame that will ultimately consume you. Write down Shelly's words and repeat them as a daily prayer: Lord, let me walk in the light of understanding today that You're with me, You love me, and that it's okay.

"Come … let us walk in the light of the Lord…. The people walking in darkness have seen a great light; on those living in the land of the shadow of death a light has dawned" (Isaiah 2:5, 9:2).

Lord, You're with me, You love me, and it's okay. Amen.



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Tuesday, April 24, 2018

Day 159 - Coping With the Loss of a Child


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Coping With the Loss of a Child
Day 159

To lose a child of any age—from an infant to an adult child—is one of the greatest shocks a parent can experience. The death of a child is tragic and feels entirely wrong.

"It's so out of sequence and just so unnatural when your child, whom you protected all your life, dies. Is there something you could have done to have spared this?" says Pastor Buck Buchanan.

This grief can be very deep. As Matthew 2:18 says, "A voice is heard in Ramah, weeping and great mourning, Rachel weeping for her children and refusing to be comforted, because they are no more."

God knows your sorrow, and no matter how dark or painful your situation, Jesus can bring you hope. Sometimes, though, you feel like rejecting that hope and embracing your despair, as if hopefulness is somehow a betrayal to your child. Do not let Satan manipulate your thoughts in that way. Seek God and allow Him to light your path.

Lord and Savior, You are the only one who knows my sorrow. My body is enveloped in pain and wracked by grief, but I know there is hope because of You. Help me to live out that hope. Amen.



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Monday, April 23, 2018

Day 158 - No Friend Like Jesus


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No Friend Like Jesus
Day 158

"I welcome anyone who may be processing grief, who does not have the resource of the person of Jesus Christ, to come to know Him as your personal Savior," invites Dr. Joseph Stowell. "While you still may weep, and your stomach may still be in a knot, and your mind may be confused for the next six months, there will be a Friend who will walk with you and guide you through the depths of it all. There is no friend like Jesus!"

Don't attempt to get through grief using your own strength and risking a temporal or shallow healing. Choose Christ so that your healing may be full and complete, and you will gain a friend like no other.

"When Jesus saw their faith, he said, 'Friend, your sins are forgiven'" (Luke 5:20).

Lord Jesus, I want You to be master of my life. Please forgive me of my selfish sins, and lead on, Friend. Amen.



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Sunday, April 22, 2018

Day 157 - One Healing Relationship


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One Healing Relationship
Day 157

Remember, there is only one relationship that can heal your broken heart. Jesus Christ is the Great Healer. He has experienced what you have experienced; He alone knows your grief and suffering.

"In all their affliction He was afflicted, and the angel of His presence saved them; in His love and in His mercy He redeemed them; and He lifted them and carried them all the days of old" (Isaiah 63:9 NASB).

Don't search for someone or something to fill the holes in your life. Let Jesus fill you. He is right there waiting for you with outstretched arms.

"After a certain period of time, I did want another person to fill the hole," says Melissa, whose husband died, "but as I grew in the Lord, I knew that it wasn't possible."

Lord, true healing is found in a relationship with You. May I fall into Your embrace today. Amen.



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