Saturday, October 28, 2017

Day 346 - What Happens After Death?


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What Happens After Death?
Day 346

"There's far more here than meets the eye. The things we see now are here today, gone tomorrow. But the things we can't see now will last forever" (2 Corinthians 4:18 MSG).

Whenever you consider God's answer to suffering and loss and grief, you must also think about heaven. You will only be on earth for a brief time. For those who believe in Jesus, their time in heaven will be forever. In heaven you will see God's final solution for tragedy, disease, death, and injustice.

"Christians understand plenty about death simply because of Jesus Christ our Lord and Savior. He's been there ahead of us," says Dr. Richard Bewes.

Lord Jesus, help me to clarify my beliefs about what happens after death. Show me the truth about eternity. Amen.



Grieving with Hope
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Friday, October 27, 2017

Day 345 - Listening to God


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Listening to God
Day 345

The rushing and busyness that characterize many lives today can be detrimental to your health, not only your physical health, but also your spiritual and emotional health. Jesus shows you what you need to do in this biblical account of Mary and Martha:

As Jesus and his disciples were on their way, he came to a village where a woman named Martha opened her home to him. She had a sister called Mary, who sat at the Lord's feet listening to what he said. But Martha was distracted by all the preparations that had to be made. She came to him and asked, "Lord, don't you care that my sister has left me to do the work by myself? Tell her to help me!" "Martha, Martha," the Lord answered, "you are worried and upset about many things, but only one thing is needed. Mary has chosen what is better, and it will not be taken away from her." (Luke 10:38-43)

When did you last stop and take the time to listen to God?

Holy God, You are worthy of my honor, praise, and undivided attention. Daily You try to speak to me, and many times I rush away from You with barely a nod. Right now, Lord, I will quiet myself before You and meditate on Your holiness and listen. Amen.



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Thursday, October 26, 2017

Day 344 - Record a Living Eulogy


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Record a Living Eulogy
Day 344

You can record a living eulogy on a videotape or audiocassette. Plan a time when your loved ones are all together. Each person could share a favorite song and Bible verse. Go around the room and ask specific questions, or have each person share something nice about the person next to him or her. Reminisce happy memories that include those in the room. Also, share thoughts and memories about loved ones who are no longer with you.

Pastor Buck Buchanan says, "The benefit I've seen is the event itself, just getting the family together. There's a lot of crying; there's a lot of laughing; there's a lot of exchange. You see the family's relationships coming out. It is extremely helpful in healing."

This is the perfect opportunity to let those around you know how much you love and value them for who they are. Sometimes in grief you will cling too tightly to family members who are still living because you fear losing them as well. This does not make them feel loved and valued; that behavior is based on fear.

Bring the family together. Plan a special evening of living memories, laughter, favorites, questions, and tears. Let God's love flow through you.

"These days should be remembered and kept throughout every generation, every family, every province, and every city … that the memory of them should not perish among their descendants" (Esther 9:28 nkjv).

Father God, You created me to be in a family. Teach me to cherish my loved ones in a way that is healthy and true. Amen.



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Wednesday, October 25, 2017

Day 343 - Living Eulogy


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Living Eulogy
Day 343

A eulogy is typically a formal, prepared statement of commendation. But eulogy can also be defined as "high praise" (Merriam-Webster). You have the opportunity daily to give a living eulogy to those you love.

Rev. John Coulombe explains: "Living eulogies should start at the crib with hands laid on the infants, speaking to them good things about who they are, God's will for them, and God's blessing upon them. Living eulogies should continue through those childhood years and adolescent years and adult years and death years. It should be a lifestyle. A living eulogy is the greatest gift that you can give. It is telling someone he or she has value and wishing God's best upon his or her life."

Pray the following Scripture for those you love, and let them know that you desire God's blessing on their lives:

"The Lord bless you and keep you; the Lord make his face shine upon you and be gracious to you; the LORD turn his face toward you and give you peace" (Numbers 6:24-26). Amen.

Let this prayer be the start of a living eulogy.



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Tuesday, October 24, 2017

Day 342 - Communicating in Grief


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Communicating in Grief
Day 342

Although you have experienced grief, you may be hesitant to approach others who are bereaved. Not knowing what to say, you may tend to avoid them. There is no "right" thing to say. It is your heart of concern and love that you need to express. Be genuine.

These suggestions will help you interact with grieving people:

  • Remain calm and nonjudgmental.
  • Use direct and specific language (naming times, places, and names) to help them reorient from the "blur" of grief events.
  • Mention the deceased by name.
  • Do not say that you know how they feel. Each loss is unique.
  • Do not tell them how good they look to avoid talking about how bad they feel.
  • Encourage them to talk about life as it existed before their loss.
  • Show your humanity.
  • Do not be afraid to gently touch them.
  • Let them cry and express their emotions.
  • Be willing to listen, especially in the evening.
  • If they want to talk about their loss, do not change the subject to a lighter topic.
  • Take your conversation cues from them. Silence is okay.
  • Make several short visits.
  • Visit during the weeks after the funeral when others get back to normal life, but the deeply grieving person cannot.
  • Let them make plans.
  • Minister to the whole family, but do not let them "attach" to you in an unhealthy manner.

"Now that you have purified yourselves by obeying the truth so that you have sincere love for your brothers, love one another deeply, from the heart" (1 Peter 1:22).

Holy God, give me the words to say and help this person know I am sincere. Amen.



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Monday, October 23, 2017

Day 341 - Lessons You Have Learned


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Lessons You Have Learned
Day 341

Keep your grief in perspective by remembering these truths you have learned:

  • Other people have experienced grief.
  • Your feelings are as unique as you are.
  • You can use the lessons you learn in grief to help others.
  • People in grief do not need to be lectured.
  • In grief, people often must tell their stories over and over.

Your pains and sorrows can become the bridge to reach out and to minister to others, bringing healing to both you and them.

"Comfort, comfort my people, says your God" (Isaiah 40:1).

God of my comfort, help me to keep my grief in perspective and to use it to help others. Amen.



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Sunday, October 22, 2017

Day 340 - Practical Help


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Practical Help
Day 340

Don't underestimate the value of giving practical help. But be observant. The kind of help needed will vary from one person to another.

Barbara Johnson shares, "I wished people would have just come and told me they loved me and that God loved me, and then helped me feed the dog, take care of the house, dump the garbage, do some things like that. Doing practical things for me would have been good because so many things they said were causing turmoil for me rather than comfort. So I learned that the words should be few and that it is better to do practical things to help the family. Bring some casseroles; feed the children; do the laundry."

If you could use practical help, ask for it. People want to help and usually find it easier to help with a specific task or responsibility.

"So in everything, do to others what you would have them do to you, for this sums up the Law and the Prophets" (Matthew 7:12).

Receive help with open arms and an appreciative outlook. Offer help with the same caring attitude.

Lord God, even when I'm not sure how another person will respond to my overtures, give me the courage to find a practical way to help and to just do it! Amen.



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