Saturday, April 01, 2017

Day 136 - The Lord Is Your Helper


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The Lord Is Your Helper
Day 136

In your grieving, who or what has been your greatest resource? Who have you relied on the most to help you through?

Let God be your most important resource; you must let Him help.

"So we say with confidence, 'The Lord is my helper; I will not be afraid. What can man do to me?'" (Hebrews 13:6).

God's strength is available at any given moment, but you must continue to use it.

Melba, whose husband died, says, "I felt the strength of the Lord from the very beginning. Actually, I thought being alone was just going to be terrible. And it hasn't been terrible. I'm coping with it."

Lord Jesus, I know Your strength is available, but sometimes I don't feel it. Help me to understand that Your strength, stability, and security is so much more than just a feeling inside. Amen.



Grieving with Hope
This GriefShare-based book contains short, topical chapters addressing issues that grieving people face but are often hesitant to mention to others; it gently guides people to determine whether they're grieving in a way that leads to hope and ultimate healing. Look for Grieving with Hope by Samuel Hodges and Kathy Leonard at a local or online bookstore or at griefshare.org/hope.




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Friday, March 31, 2017

Day 135 - Another Step in Saying Good-Bye


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Another Step in Saying Good-Bye
Day 135

Sooner or later you are faced with the necessary step of dealing with your spouse's possessions. This is an important part of saying good-bye. Again, don't rush the grieving process; just follow this step when you are ready.

Margi had some dear friends who spent the last week of her husband's life at her house helping out. These friends were having financial troubles, and after her husband's death, Margi chose to give her husband's nice work clothes to them. She also remembered her husband's ex-students, neighborhood boys who knew him, and, of course, her son.

She says: "My husband probably had a hundred ties. I gave them away to different people because I knew that my husband had touched their lives in some way, and they would have a part of him.

"I knew that it meant something to others, and that's why I was able to give it away. My husband had a lot of little articles, like little cedar chests. He had one of those from when he was a boy my son's age. So I gave that to my son one Christmas and then an arrowhead collection and several things like that."

Your spouse's memory can live on in the lives of loved ones around you. Who can you touch today with a memory of your spouse?

"I thank my God every time I remember you" (Philippians 1:3).

Lord God, may the precious memories of my spouse bring joy to me and to those around me. Amen.



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Thursday, March 30, 2017

Day 134 - Saying Good-Bye


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Saying Good-Bye
Day 134

Saying good-bye is not a one-time action. It is a process with many different steps, difficult steps. It's okay if you don't feel ready for this now. Understand that saying good-bye occurs gradually over time.

One step is to visit the places you used to go as a couple, and create new memories there.

Virgil's wife died. He says, "My one son came over and said, 'Dad, you've got to get out. Mom's not coming back.' Grief recovery means being able to move forward in spite of the pain."

The Lord God will go before you and will enable you to say good-bye.

"Righteousness goes before him and prepares the way for his steps" (Psalm 85:13).

Righteous God, strengthen me, one step at a time, to face the old precious memories and to create wonderful new ones. Amen.



Grieving with Hope
This GriefShare-based book contains short, topical chapters addressing issues that grieving people face but are often hesitant to mention to others; it gently guides people to determine whether they're grieving in a way that leads to hope and ultimate healing. Look for Grieving with Hope by Samuel Hodges and Kathy Leonard at a local or online bookstore or at griefshare.org/hope.




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Wednesday, March 29, 2017

Day 133 - Moving On


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Moving On
Day 133

A journey through grief completely consumes your time, energy, and thoughts. You walk through life oblivious to what is happening around you. This overwhelming consumption will gradually cease as you move forward through grief.

"There was a time after my husband passed away that people would ask me how I was doing," says Marie. "I would say that I'm getting through this second by second. Then, it was minute by minute. Then one day I realized that I was coming along quite well. One day, I went outside and looked up and there was the sky. I hadn't seen the sky in years or heard the birds because I was just so consumed with everything."

Your hope lies in God. Cast your cares on Him; lay your burdens at His feet. In His great compassion and love, He will sustain you.

"Yet this I call to mind and therefore I have hope: Because of the LORD's great love we are not consumed, for his compassions never fail. They are new every morning; great is your faithfulness" (Lamentations 3:21-23).

Holy Lord, I want to hear the birds and see Your sky again. Amen.



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Tuesday, March 28, 2017

Day 132 - Responding to Loss


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Responding to Loss
Day 132

In Genesis 23, the Bible relates the story of the death and burial of Sarah, Abraham's wife. The chapter begins, "Sarah lived to be a hundred and twenty-seven years old. She died at Kiriath Arba (that is, Hebron) in the land of Canaan, and Abraham went to mourn for Sarah and to weep over her."

Abraham's immediate response was to mourn and weep for his wife. He made a clear choice to mourn. How have you done this?

Rev. Noel Castellanos says that in healthy grieving "there are more than just a few tears. There is a real sense of honesty about the pain. To deal with grief in a healthy way, there has to be a time of just expressing your deep hurt."

Holy God, I choose to mourn and to express my grief freely, knowing that this is the only path to healing. Amen.



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Monday, March 27, 2017

Day 131 - Discover Your Inner Resources


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Discover Your Inner Resources
Day 131

You may be surprised at what you can do when you don't have any alternative.

"You will make it through," says Beth, whose husband died. "It's like a deep tunnel, and you're in the middle of the tunnel. There's no light at all, and you don't think you're going to make it. But if you just keep pressing on toward the Lord, you will make it to the end. That is a promise."

Keep pressing on. You will make it.

"But the Lord stood at my side and gave me strength … and I was delivered from the lion's mouth" (2 Timothy 4:17).

Lord, I will keep taking one step at a time. Deliver me from my weaknesses and doubts. Amen.



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Sunday, March 26, 2017

Day 130 - Competing Emotional Needs


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Competing Emotional Needs
Day 130

As a parent, especially if you have younger children living at home, you have the extra burden of giving comfort and encouragement to them, even as you need the same comfort and encouragement yourself.

Jodie, whose husband died, says, "I was parenting on my own. I was doing this hectic teaching schedule. I needed to be strong for my sons. At night I would cry and cry unto the Lord.

"The Lord proved Himself so faithful. One of the things that I have learned is that God has all the resources I need. I had a real concern about raising my children by myself. I prayed a lot for guidance and wisdom and strength. God gave me one verse that says, 'He'll gently lead those who are with young.' I took that to heart and knew it was from the Lord."

The Lord is your shepherd. He will care for you, protect you, comfort you, and lead you.

"He tends his flock like a shepherd: He gathers the lambs in his arms and carries them close to his heart; he gently leads those that have young" (Isaiah 40:11).

Shepherd me, Lord. Amen.



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